A ton of stuff has happened since Friday. Every time I would come to update my blog, something else would be on the horizon, so I thought, “I’ll just wait until I know for sure about that.”

Plus, I just plain haven’t had a lot of time. This is my crazy busy time at work, so trying to fit in hours to go there on top of being here when Annabelle needs me, on top of being there for my other kiddos when THEY need me… it’s just been a bit overwhelming at times. I even went to work at 4 in the morning on Monday and Tuesday in order to get stuff done and be back at the hospital by 9 for doctor’s rounds. *yawn* Yes, yes, I know sleep is important too. I’ll catch up soon.

Anyway, back to Annabelle.

So, last time I updated you she had lung issues and we were contemplating a trach and expecting to be here for another few months.

I’ve prayed for a few months now that God would allow us to be home by Christmas. I’d told God that I would LOVE LOVE to be home by Thanksgiving, but I would be okay with it as long as He gave us Christmas at least.

Well. On Friday it became clear that Christmas at home with Annabelle wasn’t going to happen. We were going to wean CPAP by a rate of 1 per week until she got to 5, then go to vapotherm, and we weren’t even sure it was going to work even then.

So, I gave God Christmas. I’d been holding onto it tightly in my clutches, determined that God would not ask me to give up my baby’s first Christmas at home. But God asked me to give it to Him, and begrudgingly I did. I would be okay with being here for Christmas. God knows what is best for my Annabelle, and if that is best, then so be it. And as stinky as it was, I was strangely at peace with it.

Well, Monday came along. Monday usually means a new doctor on rounds in the morning. (they alternate weeks…) I’ll admit. In the past I’ve gotten irritated when Monday rolled around and the new doctor would change plans up from what the doctor the previous week had set into motion. It can be frustrating sometime, this difference of opinion. BUT, this time, a part of me was hoping that another doctor would have a new perspective.

And, said doctor DID. She said… why wait so long to wean? Why not try her on a high-flow vapotherm and just see how she does? She hasn’t failed vapotherm in 2 weeks… let’s give it a go!

And Mommy said… this is good!

So we tried vapotherm.

And Annabelle said… this is good!

Well, at first she was like. what in the world??? She kept her stats up, but she was working very very hard to do that breathing. Her respiratory rate which is usually in the 30’s to 50’s was in the 70’s to 100’s. Her belly was retracting (trust me, it’s a bit scary to see and NOT like a normal baby breathes!) but all her blood gasses looked GREAT, even better actually than when she was on CPAP.

And the doctors said… this is good!

A day later, she was retracting less, her breathing calmed down, and this morning, her blood gas was the best I’ve seen it yet. Seriously, like better than even when she was intubated.

We went for a PICC line on Tuesday because her RA line was going bad. They told me they would likely have to put her on some type of breathing help (in many cases back in the ventilator) but that they would try to get it out soon after. Well, what do you know, my baby came back up here crying, on no ventilator, and when right back on her vapotherm.

And God said… I told you so!! I know what I’m doing!

And on Wednesday morning, I had a good discussion with our cardiac surgeon about the “plan” going forward. It was SO SO SO good to actually talk about a PLAN instead of operating in a “How do we fix our current problem” kind of mode.

So, here is the plan.

It’s actually pretty tentative, but at least I know their reasoning so I can understand better.

We are at a fork in the road. We can do one of two things.

1.) Do the Glenn soon, then go home. She is 4 months old on Saturday. They usually aim for about 4 months of age to do the surgery. So, if she is unable to go home due to respiratory issues, then He’d like to go ahead and do the Glenn sooner than later, like potentially in the next few weeks. As scary as this is, I also know that the recovery time for the Glenn is USUALLY less than the first surgery, and many times helps tremendously with respiratory issues. So if we did it at the beginning of December, that would mean… a SLIGHT chance of going home by Christmas.

2.) Go home, then come back for the Glenn. When they redid her shunt in her last surgery, he made it bigger to hopefully get her farther out. It should last until she is 6 months old, if not up to 8 months of age. So, if we can get her breathing well on her own without assistance, he would prefer to send us home and let her get stronger and have time with us. It is flu season, and he’d prefer NOT to do her surgery during this season for obvious reasons. This would be mean… a VERY GOOD chance of being home by Christmas!

So, either way… we have a chance at Christmas again.

To be honest, I feel like Abraham. God asked him to sacrifice something he dreamed of for a long time and had finally had within his grasp. He had to give up the dream and hope of a son to carry on his lineage. It was only when He truly acted in obedience to God and had FAITH enough to give us his dream, did God provide the lamb (if that’s the wrong animal, forgive me!) as a way of allowing Abraham to keep his son.

I feel like God just wanted me to come to the point of letting go of all my wants, my dreams, and surrendering to his will.

So many times we talk about trusting God to do XYZ. We name our wants and even what we think our needs are and say, “God, we trust you to provide this for us.” I think sometimes God wants us to say, I trust you Jesus, even if you don’t.

Some areas we still need prayer about:

  • Stomach surgery. Potentially Friday…But just found out she’s running a temp, and they wanted her with no temp for 48 hours before they did surgery. Not sure if this delays things or not. And not sure why she’s running a temp… *sigh*
  • UTI. Still have to do the studies to see why she’s gotten them a few times when there is no reason for it. 
  • Puking. She’s been throwing up the last few days. We think maybe this is partially from weaning her meds, but also because she needs the stomach surgery.
  • Weaning Vapotherm. They decided this morning to start weaning it. They weaned it from 12 to 10, and she did fine. Then from 10 to 8, and she started breathing hard again, so we went back to 10. So prayers for wisdom and discernment on the doctor’s parts on how fast to wean are appreciated. But… the faster she gets off, the faster she could go HOME. But then again… we don’t want to rush her either. *sigh*

And now for some pictures. Some CPAP and VENTILATOR free pictures!!!

Snuggling with Dolly. 

Playing with my toys!
I’m all dressed up for the day!!
Yesterday was crazy hair day!!!

 For the first time in FOUR MONTHS… Annabelle has NO DRIPS going! I very nice site for this Momma!

Chillin’ in the bouncer… sticking out her tongue. What a way to end a blog!


    1. What an awesome post. Thanks for the update. You go Momma. So proud of you!!!

      Praying, praying, praying.

    2. Oh, she looks so good!! And more wires are going away! YAY! I will be praying for her. God knows the future and knows when the right time is for her to go home.

      I can't believe she is already 4 hours old!

    3. Casey, you made me giggle today! Yes… she is 4 hours old… a little older than that actually!


      Tina, thanks for your prayers!!!

    4. She is such a doll, Krista!

      My sister is going through the same frustration of things changing every day. One doctor says to go on the transplant list as level 2, another one says do IV therapy and put her as level 1, then the first doctor changes their mind, etc., etc., etc. It can be emotionally exhausting!

      I'll keep praying for you and your family.

    5. Krista,
      This post sent such a smile to my face!! On a day when I might be feeling crappy, lol, your little ray of sunshine is enough to make the saddest person grin! I can only imagine her in person, lol….still praying diligently, but I'm so, so, SO glad to hear and see she's doing better!!
      Hoping to hear better and better things from Miss Annabelle!! *hugs*

    6. Krista we are praying EVERYDAY for you and especially Annabelle – my boys are tenderly asking God to let her come home soon – we wil amend that to come home by Christmas! Thanks for sharing this journey with us. I know that it has been a rollar coaster and the ride is still full in motion! God is in control and I know that if you continue to trust him – Annabelle is safely in his loving arms.
      She is beautiful and it is so good to see her without the vent or cpap!
      You are an awesome godly mom and I feel blessed to know you!

    7. This is amazing!!!! Wow, Krista. This post brought tears to my eyes. I will continue to pray for you and Annabelle and your family and the doctors!!

    8. So well said, Krista, about trusting. Bless your babe.

    9. Krista, what an uplifting post. I'm thanking God for positive news. I love the pics. Anabelle is simply adorable. What fun to see her looking so alert and happy.

      Continued prayers, including a request that you can celebrate Christmas at home with all your children around you.

    10. I'm so glad things are going better for you. I love that feeling of getting rid of wires and tubes. YAY for no more CPAP.

      I'm so impressed by your faith during this tough time. I hope you get her home by Christmas. 🙂

    11. WOW!!! So glad things are going in the up direction for you. I really hope that she gets to go home for Christmas. I pray for you everyday. She is so beautiful. Praise God that she is doing so well.

    12. She is so beautiful, Krista. I am so excited for you all and the wonderful progress Annabelle is making! What a blessing!

    13. Wonderful! Our God is so big! So awesome…always ready to teach us and heal us. Praying for You to be just where God wants you…which I hope is home for Christmas!

    14. Well, now I'm just in love with this beautiful baby and you, Mama!

      What a wonderful retelling of such a tough time, but Krista, you offered it with such hope, such grace, such dignity that we can all 'be there' with you.

      God bless you guys. Oh my stars, I'm soooooo praying for you and sending Ruthy hugs.

      And fudge.

    15. Krista, this post is so encouraging. I'm glad you got some good news and have a tentative plan. There are times when plans seem to make the waiting easier. I'll keep praying for you guys!

    16. She's so sweet! Thanks for the update and sharing the photos. I'll be praying…

    17. WOW Krista! This is wonderful news! I really enjoy your blog, you write so clever! I will continue to pray for you and your family! And I really can't wait to read "WERE GOING HOME" ! Thanks for sharing this beautiful story! You are an inspiration to me! Jessica Scranton

    18. Oops, Yes I think she would be a tad older than 4 hours. *blush* At least I made you laugh!! 😀

    19. Krista! Oh. My. Goodness! I am sitting here with tears in my eyes because I had NO idea about your struggles after giving birth!!! What an amazing post and even more amazing mama, who, THANK GOD, relies on the MOST amazing God!!

      Am writing a prayer sticky RIGHT NOW for you, Annabelle and Christmas. You go, girl!!


    20. Oh, …. this is Sooo Goood and sooo God! What an answer to prayer. Isn't it amazing how He sometimes asks us to let go of something just to give it right back to us? We'll continue to pray for your precious little girl and that you'll be able to go home by Christmas. We'll also pray for more wires, tubes, etc. to disappear and wisdom for the doctors to know what is best.

    21. Hi Krista –

      Wow! Lots of positive news there!

      I love the way you dress her up. Even though she's tiny, a girl always feels better when she's got a new outfit. 🙂

      Praying for all of you. Have a blessed Thanksgiving.


    22. Krista I so agree with this:

      " I think sometimes God wants us to say, I trust you Jesus, even if you don't."

      It's hard to get to that place of trusting at that level.

      I love the hair bands with flowers – it reminds me of Paislyn's. 🙂

    23. I have visited before, but have never posted a comment – I know — my bad!! But I just want you to know that I think Annabelle is the most beautiful little girl and I have been praying for your every prayer request. I so, SO hope that you have your precious little one home with her family for Christmas; what a present that would be!

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